Dear Family and Friends,
It is good to once again sit down with my cup of tea and "talk" with you again today. I've heard from those of you back home that you get a full cup of coffee to drink as you read these updates. I enjoyed hearing that as I think of us sitting across the table from one another, spending a few moments together. It is the way I grew up (sitting around the table drinking tea) and continue to enjoy relating to people.
A couple of updates ago, the theme was "margin". Well, after writing that one, I suddenly became extremely busy. Interesting how God does not let us get away with "preaching" something without giving us an opportunity to apply the message. I've reeled in my schedule and have now declared Tuesdays to be "office day" where I get to do what I enjoy so much – write updates, prepare for Bible Studies I lead and participate in, prepare for our marriage group, communicate with others by email, and study my Spanish book (ok, so I don't enjoy this one, but it sure does help!).
For the short story today, I will share prayer requests. For the long story, I will share a little about what and how each of us is doing. I have several more "devotional" type updates started and will send to you soon. My heart, as I write, is to fellowship with you at a much deeper level than always listing the things we do and need prayer for. My passion is to "walk alongside" as each one of us is on a journey and each one of us is placed in a specific mission field – one no more important than the other. We are co-laborers and need the encouragement of one another. You have been wonderful encouragers and incredibly faithful prayer warriors. We are so blessed by and thankful for you.
Prayer Requests:
Also, please pray specifically for Rebekah's health. She has always been our "healthy one", but since we moved here she has struggled a great deal with respiratory illnesses. She has one right now. We are wondering if something in our house/her room is bothering her and I am cleaning everything I can think of. There are several areas of our roof that leak a good deal of water when it rains and our tile is bubbling up as well due to the water. So, we are concerned about mold, etc. Please pray for God to show us the next step in helping her with this.
2) Safety: A couple of weeks ago the Supreme Court of Nicaragua ruled that Daniel Ortega could run for office again in the next election. Prior to this decision, the law was 5 years and out. However, this decision ushers in the possibility that he could serve another term. The court ruling is suspicious in terms of how it came about and there is little (earthly) hope of a fair election (2010), however, we continue to pray for God's hand to guide this situation.
We are seeing changes that are concerning. Last week there was a riot outside of the US Embassy with people throwing glass bottles at the Embassy, shooting off mortars (homemade "bombs" made of rock) at the Embassy, while others attempted to climb the wall. The US marines were positioned inside the Embassy to defend it and one Embassy worker said that this was unsettling as it was 1) unusual to have the marines positioned to fight and 2) he was also hoping that he would not see anyone shot that day.
We personally do not feel that we are in danger at this time. The Embassy communicates with us regularly by email about any potential threat. Through Boy Scouts, many of the Embassy workers are now personal acquaintances so we do hear a lot about what is going on behind the scenes. We would, however, just ask for your continued prayers for protection – especially for the Embassy workers who need to drive in and out of the Embassy every day and who are easily identified by their license plate.
Lisa: Last month, I was asked to be on a Search Committee for a new pastor for the international church that we attend. It has been an interesting process and a great opportunity to get to know more people. I have also committed to be a part of the Women's Fellowship Team which plans events for a group of around 100 women throughout the year. I continue to lead a Bible Study for the teachers at the school and am scheduling lunches with them each week to get to know them better. We are excited to plan our first annual retreat for sometime in Jan/Feb. Dan and I are now beginning to prepare for our next marriage group that will begin in January.
One of the things I have particularly enjoyed doing these past couple of months is developing a plan to be intentional about couple and family time this year. It is interesting how we can't "do marriage" or "do family" the way we did it in the US. We tried that last year and found again and again that it did not work. For example, Dan and I would go on dates in the US in the evening. Well, we tried to do that here and we got into a fight every time! Why? Because we are exhausted by 8:00 pm. It is very hard to sleep past 5:30 AM here and the heat causes us to be tired earlier as well. So, we now do our dates during the day for lunch or coffee on weekends! Dan also takes the kids on regular 1:1 dates and is so great about doing things they love to do. They come back so excited with a full love tank! We are also doing a structured Family Nite which includes doing something fun; a family meeting which involves family members voicing concerns and us working to address those concerns as a family; and a teaching time about things like conflict management/friendship/managing money. We have found that ministry offers fewer "built in" boundaries than what we had been used to with Dan working an 8 to 5 job. So, we are being very proactive about setting and maintaining good boundaries so that we can function well as a family.
Rebekah: Rebekah loves school and has a neat group of friends. She and most of the girls in her class auditioned for and performed in a talent show last month. Rebekah choreographed most of the dance (to the music of Sail Away by Go Fish) and I adjusted it to work with the number of girls that we had participating. It was a great team building experience for the girls. This is honestly an answer to prayer as we ended the year last year with great heartache in regard to how some of the girls in the class were treating Rebekah. We were proud to see Rebekah loving them unconditionally and continuing to try to be their friend regardless of the way they were treating her. We had lots of talks about what God may be teaching her and spent time praying for the hearts of the girls. We now see how God has changed these dynamics to the point where there is clearly unity among these girls. And Rebekah is often invited to birthday parties and on play dates to several girls' homes. Rebekah will also be learning to sew which is something she has wanted to learn for a long time. A friend of mine who is domestically amazing will be teaching her while Will and I take care of her toddlers. Rebekah has also begun to volunteer at a home for children with disabilities by helping to take care of the horses they use for horse therapy.
Will: Will had an interesting month last month. He was being picked on by a boy in his class (pushing, kicking him). This boy was suspended for a day, and was asked to apologize to Will. This boy has demonstrated a lot of this kind of behavior in the past as well and has difficulty learning. We talked as a family about how to love this boy unconditionally. On his own, Will wrote a note to this boy telling him that our family loved him and that we were praying for him and then he asked us all to sign the note. He also asked a classmate to write an encouraging note to the boy. Since then, Will's teacher wrote several emails to me documenting the transformation in this little boy and Will's relationship. She writes, "I am so blessed to see how God is working just in our little classroom, and Will is the ultimate Peacemaker!" Will is also having a great time in Boy Scouts. He and Dan camped on the grounds of the US Embassy a couple of weeks ago which was a very interesting experience. Scouts has been an answer to prayer for Will – a place where he can relate to and make friends with an American peer group which has given him confidence at school as he relates to his Nicaraguan and South Korean friends.
Thank you all again so very much for your interest in our journey and for your prayers. We are so comforted to know that we are supported so well and so faithfully by those back home.